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Starting Weight: 330 pounds

 

Weight Last Week: 304 pounds

 

This week’s weigh-in: 305 pounds

 

Can you say Aunt Flo? Don’t you all feel so privileged that I keep you up-to-date on my cycles?

 

I thought you might.

 

And in the famous words of Forrest Gump, “That’s all I have to say about that.”

 

By the way, I didn’t post this yesterday because I had not weighed in, but for the month of September I only lost a little over a pound. That makes me so sad. I lost and gained the same couple of pounds all month long.

 

Today is a new day though, and it’s time to step things up a notch. I’ve got a big surprise in store for you tomorrow that’s going to help me do just that.

 

The Chick Magnet weighed in this week at 253.6 this week. So he lost nearly 15 pounds during the month of September (and 2.6 pounds this week!). It’s almost embarrassing how much better he is at this than me! Not that I am competing or anything. Because I would never do that. Because I’m a good wife and I support and love my husband at all times.

 

Some of my non-scale victories (NSV) this week include:

  1. Wore a pair of pants to church today that I don’t think I will be able to wear again. I had to hold them up with one hand while carrying chicklet #4 up the stairs today because they were literally falling off of me.

 

Uh, yeah, that’s all I can think of.

 

That’s the truth.

 

How was your weigh-in this week? Any new goals for next week? Did you have any YET” moments?

 

D0 you have a recommendation for a good scale? I’m in the market for one. I had to keep replacing the batteries in my old one (just bought a few months ago) every month and have replaced it with a cheapo rotary one.  Would love to have a digital one, but want it to be reliable of course.

 

Suggestions?

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Starting Weight: 330 pounds

 

Weight Last Week: 306 pounds

 

This week’s weigh-in: 304 pounds

 

Can you hear the Hallelujah Chorus? Because I sure can!

 

I have to say I was pretty surprised that I lost, and 2 whole pounds at that! I’m proud of that 2 pounds and very thankful because I know with my recent lack of motivation and intentional indulgent eating for The Chick Magnet’s last week with us, it could have been so much worse.

 

I think the difference for  me between keeping it together enough to lose 2 whole pounds or me just falling completely off-the-wagon is that my attitude towards food has totally changed in these last few months. You all are well-aware of the fact that things have been especially tense and emotional around here these past few weeks. In the past, circumstances like the ones I am facing would have led to an all-out binge and would have ended with me a crumpled mess filled with self-loathing.

 

YET.

 

Oh, I’m so glad there’s a yet, aren’t you?

 

Just a few short months ago I would have gone to any lengths to defend and justify emotional binge.

 

“Well, look at all I have to go through. I DESERVE this dessert.”

 

“Well, I already went over my calories for breakfast, now my whole day is ruined. May as well follow it through and eat whatever I want.There’s no point in even trying anyway.”

 

“I NEED CHOCOLATE.”

 

Okay, that last one may still be true and a completely valid justification.

 

But the rest of it? Hogwash. I am done with that junk. I am done believing lies. I am done hating myself with food. I am done seeking comfort in a place that was never meant to comfort. That’s my yet.

 

Did I allow myself to have some treats last week? Absolutely. Did I indulge in some of The Chick Magnet’s favorite desserts? You better believe it. Did I feel guilty about it in the morning? No way.

 

Why? Because I knew it wasn’t the end all be all. I knew just because I enjoyed some good food with my husband it did NOT mean I failed. In fact, just the opposite was true. The fact that I was able to enjoy those things guilt-free, and start new the next day without giving it a second thought? V-I-C-T-O-R-Y

 

Y-E-T

 

I mean, seriously, I passed the 25-pound milestone! How can I be disappointed with that? I did that. I have worked for every last ounce of that loss, and I have worked hard! I own that baby! I know I have so far to go, but I am choosing today to focus on how far I have come.

 

And The Chick Magnet? You won’t believe it. This morning he weighed in at 256.2. The last time I posted his weigh-in (3 weeks ago) he was at 264.3. So in the last 3 weeks he has lost a total of 8.1 pounds. And do you remember he started out at 307 pounds? That means he has lost more than 50 pounds!!! In three months!!!

 

Yep, he has a yet too! So proud of my man!

 

Some of my non-scale victories (NSV) this week include:

  1. Totally rocked a pair of jeans at church today. Can’t remember the last time I wore jeans. And I never wear them to church. But today I wore them just because I could.
  2. Later, I was able to take those same jeans off without unbuttoning or unzipping them. I think it’s time for some new jeans-don’t you think?
  3. My kids are all still alive and relatively healthy. That counts for something after my first week alone doesn’t it?
  4. Bough The Chick Magnet some new jeans tonight. In a size 36!

 

That’s the truth.

 

How was your weigh-in this week? Any new goals for next week? Did you have any YET” moments?

 

P.S. The winner of the Daily Feats Gift Card Giveaway, as chosen my random.org was comment #13. I removed the comments by The Chick Magnet and me.

I would like to work more everyday, that probably sounds crazy but freelance writing isn’t very lucrative when you first start :) Then again I can’t complain too much, I get paid to sit in my pj’s, as I cuddle my kids, and write (and learn) about all kinds of stuff.

Congratulations Heather-watch your e-mail!

 

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Or so they say.

 

But really? I would rather have to put that theory to the test. But, alas, I would also not rather be homeless and I would rather be able to put good, healthy food on our table. So, over the course of the next few months, The Chick Magnet and I and the Chicklets will have the opportunity to see if it’s really true.

 

We have done this before though. When we were dating and throughout our year and a half engagement, my then fiance, now fabulous hubby, and I lived several states apart. He was going to Purdue here in IN and I was in PA, 500 miles away.

 

However, in the nearly 11 years we have been married, we have never faced a situation quite like this one. And can I be really honest? It sucks. It just really, really sucks.

 

Now I am not here to throw a pity party. I am SO thankful for the opportunity we have been given. But it sure doesn’t make being separated much easier. I know it could be so much worse. My local accountability partner is a military wife who is separated for months on end from her sweet husband. I just don’t think I have her strength.

 

And then there’s the for real single mamas who have my utmost admiration and respect. I have no idea how they do it, day in and day out, with no break, no support, no back-up.

 

I have a feeling though, our family will prove this theory to be true and come out stronger in the end. In the meantime, you all lovely readers get the fortunate opportunity to listen to me whine and moan about how much I hate it. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. ;)

 

I am also giving you the opportunity to put this theory to the test yourselves. I am taking a short leave of absence from the blog, and Facebook and Twitter. The Chick Magnet has the next few days off and is at home with us and I am taking advantage of every second. I hope my absence only makes your heart grow fonder!

 

 

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How’s that for a title?

 

As most of you are probably aware by now, The Chick Magnet, after several months without a steady income, has accepted a job in Florida. The time has finally come for me to say good-bye to my husband and the kids to say good-bye to their daddy for several months.

 

Just so you know, I can hardly type that sentence without bawling my eyes out. My hubby leaves Friday to start a new adventure for our family. His new job begins a week from today.

 

So, while my typical menu plan is focused on healthy, whole, raw foods, my focus has shifted a bit this week. I am planning on making all of The Chick Magnet’s favorite foods. I will still be using quality ingredients and making things as healthfully as possible.

 

But, let’s be honest, you really can’t make Peanut Butter Pie healthy.

 

And, let’s be honest, who would really want to?

 

So, without further ado, here is our rather indulgent menu plan for this week.

 

Menu plan, Week of September 12 – September 18

 

Monday:

  • Breakfast: scrambled eggs, sliced watermelon
  • Lunch: Peanut butter and honey wraps, fresh peaches, carrots and dip
  • Dinner: Smoked sausage, sweet corn, fresh fruit (these are actually leftovers because I am going out tonight for Mom’s Night Out. I know, really nice of me to do that my husband’s last week home. But it will also be my last night for a while to get to go out with my girlfriends and you better believe I am going to take advantage of it! Besides, it gives The Chick Magnet and the Chicklets some excellent bonding time! At least that’s what I will tell myself to assuage the guilt. ;) )

 

Tuesday:

 

Wednesday:

  • Breakfast: Quick Cook Coffee Cake
  • Lunch: Egg McMuffins (NOT McDonald’s ;)), cantaloupe, sliced tomatoes
  • Dinner: Homemade General Tso’s Chicken, Fried Rice, Asian Salad

 

Thursday:

  • Breakfast: Steel Cut Oatmeal
  • Lunch: Peanut butter and banana sandwiches, homemade applesauce, sliced cucumbers
  • Dinner: Taco Soup, cornbread, peanut butter pie (Yep, I’m going there. This is The Chick Magnet’s last night home and this is his all-time favorite dessert. Don’t worry, I will be sharing the recipe love with you later this week. You can thank me later.)

 

Friday:

  • Breakfast: Whole Wheat Banana Walnut Bread
  • Lunch: Subway (I know, I know. But I will be having a garage sale this day and trying to help get the car loaded for The Chick Magnet’s trip and I will be a big bundle of emotional mess and dealing with emotional children-so I’m indulging and letting someone else do the work).
  • Dinner: Leftovers  (again, the aforementioned garage sale and The Chick Magnet will be gone by dinner time and I am sure I will not be in the mood for whipping up something fabulous).

 

Saturday:

  • Breakfast: Homemade granola
  • Lunch: Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, sliced veggies and fruit
  • Dinner: Marinated pollock fillets, steamed broccoli and cauliflower

 

Sunday:

 

You will notice that many things are the same from last week. The first reason for this is that I like to streamline breakfast and lunch. I try to offer enough variety that we don’t get bored and I can be sure we are getting plenty of healthy nourishment. But it makes it easy to have the same things on the same days for breakfast and lunch because it just helps to streamline my “super-busy-stay-at-home-homeschooling-mama-to-four-who-is-never-at-home” life.

 

Also, some of the dinners that I didn’t get to make due to scheduling conflicts or time constraints last week got carried over into this week. I actually don’t mind when that happens because even though things don’t go perfectly according to plan, it helps to already have a few meals on back-up and helps with the grocery bills for the week since we should already have all of the ingredients for those meals.

 

It’s important to me that my routines serve as a guide for my days, not as a dictator. It helps me to have a plan and a general idea of how I want things to go, but if I don’t allow for flexibility (for example, having a few back-up meals planned for those especially hectic days when I only have time for easy) then I get all sorts of anxious and I don’t allow myself to be open to opportunities for serving and helping others.

 

I have to be flexible because the fact is, life gets in the way sometimes. Sometimes I get a 5 o’ clock phone call from a friend who needs a listening ear and I don’t have as much time to make dinner as originally planned. Sometimes the kids have an especially hard day and we all need a little break and will go out to eat. Sometimes I have lots of leftovers that weren’t anticipated and I can have an open evening the next night to play games and have extra story times with the kids.

 

So if you have never planned out your menu plan like this, don’t let the”plan” part of it discourage you. Stay flexible, keep your options open and have fun with it!

 

I am linking up this post over at OrgJunkie today. Head on over and check out some other great meal ideas.

 

As always, if there is something in particular you are just desperate for the recipe for, let me know in the comments and I will do my best to accommodate!

 

Do you menu plan? Do you think menu plans can help you to be more flexible?

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